Yesterday I was making a walk through Haaksbergen. The town is beuatiful in all its autumns colors. Yes, I really like this town. So many years I have lived here. I grew up there, moved to Borne and returned after the relation I had over then ended.
Sure, I won’t deny that there many other towns that are awesome, but for me a town as Haaksbergen has a special spot.. always will have.
And now? No idea what the future will bring. I love my new job in Hoofddorp. Somewhere in the future I may want to move closer to there. Although I have nothing to complain about how this is going at the moment. Specially with the Fridays working at home.
And Marion? Things as they go are good. As we promised each other we are moving in our relation very slowly. We are not in a hurry. On the contrary, we have all the time of the world. Both of us have for our own reasons a strong need for independence and freedom. And as long we allow each other independence and freedom, we are on the good way.
But in the future… maybe moving together somewhere close to the places we work? Who knows… as I always say, the future is open.
I know that many people don’t understand the relation Marion and I have. Too often we are asked when we will move together… if we will marry… blah blah blah. I think just a few of the people close to us really understand… of course Sanne does. I think my friends Patrick and Dave do.
But do I really care about others? Mostly not. But some times it is sad that people you like don’t understamd this what is so important for us. But ah well….
So yes, there is a rather big change that the future will lead me away from Haaksbergen. But where ever my ways will lead, I am pretty sure that these roads will lead me often through Haaksbergen… I love that town!!!