When Rob was a young boy, he once went on a holiday with his parents to Hellendoorn. They stayed a week at hotel “De Uitkijk”. This hotel still exists and this year Marissa, Richard, Rob and I will go there for a long weekend.
Anyway, when Rob stayed there with his family, he went often to a nearby amusement park, which also still exists. Mostly Rob, as he told me, went there to play arcade games. He mentioned an arcade game where you are in a submarine and have to destroy enemy ships.
On one of his trips to the amusement park, he bought at a souvenir shop a small replica of a statue of the Greek goddess Aphrodite.
This statue was the beginning of Rob’s interest in Greek mythology.
Over the following years he bought more statues of Greek Goddesses at all kind of places. He knew which Goddesses they were, their stories and where they original statues are.
He had and still has quite an extended knowledge of the Greek mythology. Of course, his love for Greece has come from somewhere!
Then, years later, Rob met his ex-girlfriend. I dare to say that his ex did quite some wrong to him.
Rob was during the time he went to school deeply in love with a girl. He wrote beautiful texts for this girl and made some kind of bundle of it.
His ex-girlfriend requested him to get rid of these texts and he did. These texts, expect some he got back through another resource, are gone forever. I would have loved to read those texts, even when they are about another woman. It is all long ago, it is Rob’s past. He has full right on his own past, after all, it is what made him what he is today.
More things like that happened.
And then there were Rob’s Greek Goddess statues. Some of those goddesses statues are naked, which is very common for Greek statues.
And also these statues were not to the liking to Rob’s ex. He can recall that words as unfriendly for women were used. With that the statues had to go to.
I really cannot understand this. Did she not realize that these statues were important for Rob? She should have known this.
And is a replica of an old Greek statue, nude or not, woman-unfriendly? I don’t think so. Calling nudity woman-unfriendly is bringing the rights of women back to the dark ages. These day women are allowed to be proud on their bodies and don’t have to hide it under all covering clothes. And is a woman’s body not beautiful? And apart from this all, the statues are not even very detailed.
I cannot get rid of the feeling that Rob his ex tried to control and manipulate him. Something that always will fail in the end, as it did.
So some years back on one of our holidays to Greece I saw in a shop a nice replica of a statue of Aphrodite. I remembered directly what Rob told me once about these kind of statues. Of course I bought it. A present that maybe will undo a little what was done in the past. Rob was really happy with the statue. So now I try to buy on every holiday to Greece such a statue for him
So Aphrodite, Leda, Sapho and others are back in Rob’s house. As they should…
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I was first reluctant when you told me that you wanted to write about this. But now I have read it, it is okay.
Not to best time of my life. My ex wrote on a public forum that she had wasted years of her life (the time with me). Well, she was not the only one and I wasted more than just years. As you wrote, some things are lost forever.
Luckily I have now you (and the others of “The Group”)!
I really cannot understand how people can do this kind of things to each other. When you two where here last year Rob and I talked about this and also about the things that are not mentioned in this article.
I can only say that Rob should be happy he is not with his ex any more. And that he should be even more happy that he is now with Marion.
Rob, when we go to Athens, we will visit also a museum where they have many of the original statues. I have an idea you really would like that.
I had times ago a small chat with her on Facebook and was she so friendly…
But after what Rob and some others told about her, I know that was just played. I could come up with some very rude words for her, but I that is beyond my level of doing things.
Just what the others already said: Happy that Rob is now with Marion. That is a good match!
People can be so cruel to each other. I really wonder what made her do these things to Rob. Jealousy? Uncertainty? Or just wanted to get even with something? Maybe it is better never to get an answer on that.
Rob has proven more as once to be a good, helpful and friendly guy. And Marion and he are indeed a good match!
How to hurt someone the most? Take away what makes someone to be who he or she is. And that is what happened here basically.
Good that this is the past now and you are with us, Rob!
Thank you for the kind words. I know I am in good hands with you all as friends.